“You have to have self-belief you’ve done what’s required,” he said. “The only way you do that on a regular basis is sticking to your plan and going to work. In those nervous moments leading up to those games, it’s reminding yourself, ‘Hey, I put the work in. I’ve made my deposits. Now, you have to relax and play and let what you’ve done training-wise carry you and give you a sense of peace.’”
Sieverts understands the tightness in championship games comes from feeling like you put so much into the season. Having that sense of peace is important because winning a championship can simply come down to the ball bouncing one team’s way.
Ambler pointed out Brett Dobson’s save on Jake Carraway’s two-point shot with a half-second remaining in the 2023 title game. He said if Dobson doesn’t make “the save of a lifetime,” then he narrative about the Archers failing to win the big one continues, and Ambler remains without a title.
The 2023 championship was decided by one goal, and Dobson’s save preserved that victory. Ambler also pointed to the hustle plays that occurred before that final shot, such as one of the “gritty” ground balls Mac O’Keefe picked up or when Connor Maher sold out and dived toward the endline on a missed shot, beating out Michael Sowers and earning the Archers a key fourth-quarter possession.
To get moments like those, Sieverts said you have to have teammates that are willing to sacrifice for each other. For Spallina, that meant setting up a locker room culture in which every person is treated with respect and as an integral part of success.
“I think the connections throughout are what’s most important,” Spallina said. “I can remember a time on the Lizards, one of the rookie guys throwing a water bottle down on the floor coming out of a huddle. I was like, ‘What the hell is that? What are you throwing that on the floor for?’ [He replied] ‘Oh, the trainer will get it.’ No, the trainer isn’t getting it. You pick it up and put it in the thing.
“If you want to have winning ways, you need everybody bought in. That’s guys on the field, guys that are on the team but are not on the field, trainers, coaches, even ownership.”
It’s all about building bonds that extend beyond the playing field.
Adler, who also won with the Chaos and the National Lacrosse League’s Buffalo Bandits, said he is still friends with all those teammates.
“You don’t share those experiences with anyone else,” he said.
He also said that winning a championship isn’t just about doing it for your teammates and staff, either. The fans are also part of the team’s motivation. Adler specifically remembered during his time with Buffalo that a young fan, Hannah, was getting cancer treatments but still coming to Bandits games.
“Not to make it bigger than it is, but us winning brought her joy,” he said. “It has that impact on people, so yeah, it adds to it … maybe I will work a little harder. Maybe I will make more sacrifices. When you have people like that, it’s a lot bigger than just yourself and your teammates, too.”
Through his numerous championships, the biggest lesson Spallina learned was how to be vulnerable and understand that not everything will work out perfectly. You have to be honest with yourself about the effort you put in.
While it’s important to put in the work yourself, Spallina — who is a second-grade teacher — said you have to realize that it’s not just about you, and that lesson transcends the sport.
“Hard work, determination, nothing comes easy. Nobody just says one day they want to go out and win it,” he said. “Those life lessons of determination and effort and fighting for the things you believe in, whether it’s a win, or sometimes it’s bigger than the game. Sometimes a teammate needs support in a certain way, or sometimes somebody’s sick, or maybe, somebody’s having a kid or whatever the case is. Those lessons in sports really resonate in my regular life, putting other people first.”